Saturday, September 10, 2005

Discharged!

Yesterday (Friday 9th September), a bit under seven months since the accident, I was discharged from Cavit. Although I will still have to go in for physiotherapy as an outpatient, my discharge was a nice milestone to achieve.

I will probably go out with my family over the next few days to celebrate the discharge. The change of scene will be nice but the battle won’t end, though. I’ll still have to do my best in my recovery from here on in.

The next step in my recovery is the process of getting back to work and contributing to the economy again rather than being so lazy. First though, I get to live off the fatted calf at Mum and Dad's and do nothing while I work out what deficits I have and what strategies I can use for them for about six weeks.

It's a bit hard for me to remember, though it is probably easier for others and I have received reminders from people, what I was like and how much help I needed and how far I’ve come. The days when I couldn’t talk or get around like I can now seem like ages ago, though. Like another lifetime.

My recovery is possibly a bit weird for permanent residents at Cavit. They see a guy come in who is initially worse than them, slowly improves and then is eventually discharged while they’re still there. They’re good guys, though, and I’ll do my best to stay in touch.

This will be my last post on the blog although my parents might well put a final post on. The blog has been a fantastic way of letting people know how things are going. Before the accident I think I knew what a blog was, but not how useful they could be. I offer my thanks to my sister whose idea it was. Without it my family and I would have had to repeat ourselves a hell of a lot more.

My final post seems like a good time to start another round of more complete thanks yous. My thanks go to my immediate and extended families. This journey would have been a lot harder without your support. My thanks also go to all the medical staff involved with my recovery. The guidance that you were able to provide was awesome. Thanks for keeping me alive even though I did my best to check out there a couple of times. It’s fortunate that I can say I think that checking out was something I could have been better at it. My thanks also go to my co-accidentee, Ben Schurr. That must have been a very tough call to make to my Dad telling my parents about the accident. It is a credit to you that you coped with everything and still completed a very good Ironman two weeks later.

I have heard about people who face some sort of ostracisation after accidents similar to mine. My post card covered wall at Cavit would have attested to the fact that that hasn’t been a problem for me. The support from everyone, including from people all over the world, has been amazing.

I understand quite a few people read this blog who haven’t even met me. If you’re one of those people I hope you didn’t find my musings too weird. I also hope to meet you all at some stage. To everyone else I hope to meet you again sometime in the not too distant future.

Cheers for keeping track of me,
Mike

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Anonymous said...

Warm congratulations Mike. Working extremely hard at recovery can hardly be considered "lazy"! Will miss your blog - and it's absolutely worth it knowing that you've reached "discharge status". You are a treasure! (As are all the Wilkinson/Brown crowd)All the very best & love to the whanau!
Carolyn,Grant & fam.

Anonymous said...

Well done Mike, look forward to seeing you at your mum and dad's. Will be coming up in October. The future is your, go for it.
Gilda

Anonymous said...

YEY MIKE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Lou :-)

Fantastic and amazing!

Anonymous said...

Just amazing....well done all of you


natasha

Anonymous said...

Hello Mike:

Congratulations on your discharge! I'm one of those who has followed your progress on the blog since the beginning. The courage and determination that you and your family have shown throughout this time is to be admired. I want to thank you for sharing your life over the last few months and wish you the very best for the future!
Carolyn Beadle

Anonymous said...

Mike

We are delighted to hear you are home. We will continue to keep you in our thoughts and wish you every success as you continue to meet life on your terms.

Once again, our best wishes.

regards Kay & John

Anonymous said...

Hello Mike
We are delighted to know you are home now.
Mark and I wish you all the best as you go forward with your life.
Regards
Gail and Mark

Anonymous said...

Jan Gundersen here - I have so enjoyed following your blog over all these months and I'm thrilled to have read tonight that you have done so well you can now be discharged from Cavit - I wish you and your family all the very best. I know Bryan has met you but I hope one day I will have the pleasure of doing the same - it's been such a long haul for you and you have done remarkably well. I couldn't help noticing from the Blog all your wonderful friends' brilliant comments - just shows what a popular guy you are. All the very best for the future.

Anonymous said...

MIKE!!!
Awesome work!! CONGRATULATIONS!!!
We cant wait to go on a road trip with you to Napier! Only about 100 more sleeps to go!!!
See you soon!
Much love and a massive round of applause!
Kent and Amanda

Cindy said...

Mike,

I am one of the people who don’t know you. I came upon this blog at random, just a few days after your accident. I continued to check back to see how you were doing. It seems now is my last chance to say hello as you begin this new chapter in your life.

I was very impressed with the progress you made in your recovery, but in a way, not really surprised. It was obvious you had a lot going for you: you were in peak physical condition before your accident, you have a sharp mind and a strong will, and a wonderful network of family and friends. I have no doubt you will go on to do great things in your life.

Best wishes,

Cindy

Anonymous said...

Mike

That is wonderful news, the blog has been a fantastic way of keeping track of your progress. Can't wait to catch up with you on my next trip to the capital.

Take care
Kim McArthur :)

Anonymous said...

Mike,

Well done on the recovery and discharge. I have been following your inspirational story for the past seven months. Good luck and hope to catch up with you soon.
Regards,
Ashley Honey

Anonymous said...

Well done Mike. We have followed your progress closely over the last few months. It's been truly wonderful to be able to follow your amazing progress. We know there is still a way to go but the signs seem to us to be highly positive.
Cheers
Peter & Dianne Gallagher

Anonymous said...

Hi Mike. Brian's friend Erin here. I've been following your progress for months now and it's great to see that your recovery has gone so well. I'm certain that you will continue to do brilliant things with your life, and I wish you and your family the very best. Take care!

Erin McGee

Anonymous said...

Wonderful Happy, you have been awesome, congratulations on your discharge. A great effort! Will miss your blogs, have tuned in every morning, it has been wonderful to follow your progress. Take care and keep in touch Love Marg and Gav

Anonymous said...

What can I say but CONGRATULATIONS! You are awesome Mike and thanks for sharing your progress. It was exciting to check in tonight after so long and have this news greet me. All the very best for your continued recovery. Warm wishes to your Mum and Dad too.

Cheers, Brenda H.

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Anonymous said...

Hey Mike,

'Wicked' in the words of Sarah Ulmer. Great work mate, I know the months since the accident have been a huge challenge for you but you've met everything that's been thrown at you with determination, success and the trademark Happy grin!

The way you've gone about everything and your positive outlook is really inspiring and makes you realise how special each day is.

So, congratulations mate huge effort. I know you won't be resting on your laurels for too long though as you look for that next challenge!

Catch up again soon.

Cheers
Dave Colligan

Anonymous said...

Awesome news Mike, congrats on the milestone. I'm sure your recovery will improve exponentially now you can enjoy home cooking on a regular basis!

Scotty

Anonymous said...

Hey Mike

Congrats on getting discharged. Keep working towards those goals, as it would be great to have you back at work "contributing to the economy", and being an economist again. And perhaps you'd be based in the Wellington office? I'm sure you'll find it much more fun down here than up in the Auckland office! ;-)

Kevin Counsell

Anonymous said...

WELL Lee and Bryce will be thrilled to share their apartment with you and give you some home living .Always nice to have the "kids" staying [dont get that pleasure much any more].Look forward to seeing you in December when we are home from middle east .Its fantastic

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Anonymous said...

Mike,
Congrats on the discharge mate, hadn't been able to check the blog for a couple of weeks. Congrats brother, am definately home for the summer in early November so can't wait for a catch up.
Take care,
Steve Gellatly.

Anonymous said...

Hi Mike

Congrats on being discharged. I think your parents are based in Thorndon so would be keen to catch up for some lunch. Will text you. Awesome to hear

David Morgan

Anonymous said...

This day has been a long time coming but your perseverence and determination have made it possible. I guess help from the Medical team, friends and family sure helped you too.
Thinking of you all,
love from Rodney and Helen

Anonymous said...

Your last blog brought tears to my eyes again Mike. Buggered if I know why - perhaps just the emotion of knowing how far you have come. Upwards and downwards with balance and aplomb. Forwards and onwards to work once again.
Congrats.
Uncle William

Anonymous said...

Hi Michael - I have never met you but I am a friend of Lee's. I am thrilled for all of you that you have made such progress that you are going home. Well done to all of you-Tracey, this blog was a brilliant idea and I congratulate you and also send my appreciation that your family kept us so informed in those initial dark days. Lee and Bryce-what strength, optimism and focus-I am in awe of your success in creating the success factors present to ensure that Mike had as much in his favour for recovery. No mean feat. Family and friends-yeah! First class. Every best wish for ongoing and fabulous progress. Aroha Lesley M

Anonymous said...

Hi Mike - well done on your progress so far and best wishes for your continuing recovery. My husband Greg Houston used to work with your Dad many years ago, and we have been regularly checking the blog to see how you're going. We're so pleased for you and your family that you've reached this milestone, and hope that the future continues to be bright. Thanks for sharing your blog with us.
Cheers, Rachel Houston, Sydney.

Anonymous said...

Hi Mike,

My boyfriend, Johnny and I have been following your progress since February when Liz Winstone passed on news of your accident. Congratulations on reaching such an important milestone. Enjoy the time at home with your Mum and Dad and keep up the good work. Liz and Phil are in Tuscany with my Mum and Dad at the moment and we are meeting them on Saturday so no doubt they will be thrilled to hear your news.

Anna Baudinet (aka Bauds from Canterbury Uni and CH '97)

Anonymous said...

Mike and family

Many thanks for keeping us updated over the past 7 months. The early blogs in particular I'm sure weren't the easiest to write with everything else going on at the time. You are a fantastic family.

Mike - I guess Sam will have your contact details, or can get them off Ben, but we will no doubt catch up with you in Wellington at some stage, or maybe even see you back up here in AKL.

Take care and all the best for your continued progress,

Sarah Elliot

Anonymous said...

Full credit to you Mike. I'm sure as always you will make the most of the life you have ahead of you. Look forward to catching up in person some time soon. Miles

Anonymous said...

Must be great to be discharged Mike. We have been following your progress from overseas and you have been a real inspiration. Looking forward to catching up with you.
David Ruddenklau and Tracey Cooper

Anonymous said...

Hey bro,

This is fantastic news, hope home is treating you well. Hopefully you got me and ray's postcard, we had a great time biking around and were thinking about you the whole way. Keep fighting the good fight!

Cheers

Raj

Anonymous said...

hi Mike & family. Just realised that you've been home for a month. Hope that it's all going well for you!
Love
the Pomeroys